I hope you're all having an amazing day!!
I just wanted to talk about intolerable things in relationships, in particular, love relationships.
Most people have quirks in their relationships that can bug them, but when we love each other, they're usually small things that we can tolerate. When they go outside of that zone, it's another story.
One thing that I find intolerable is having the one you love lie about being sick to get out of work, especially when they ask YOU to call in sick for them. That's just not cool. That used to happen to me A LOT!
Something else I find intolerable is feeling as though you're the only one keeping the relationship going. You do all the talking, messaging, traveling, spending, etc...
Any relationship should not be 50/50, but 100/100 and communication is key. Both parties have to equally communicate. When that doesn't happen, suspicion arises and both people begin to question in their minds; Are they cheating? Are they lying? Are they sneaking around? Maybe they're not into me anymore?
See where this is going? It can be the end of a great relationship which could have been avoided had the two just opened up and been honest with each other.
Why is it so hard to open up? I believe it's because we fear what the answer will be. We fear that it will be what we didn't want to hear, that it's the end of the relationship and we have to, once again, START OVER. 💔
As one who has gone through divorce and been down the online path, starting over to find love is a daunting task, especially in today's society of trying to find love online. There are a LOT of creeps out there. 👾 👽 👻 👹
PLEASE BE CAREFUL! 💜
My best bit of advice is to first learn to love yourself and learn to be ok by yourself. Also, dig deep within yourself and figure out what you ARE and ARE NOT willing to put up with in a relationship. Once you've accomplished this, you can move forward in looking for love. Just don't depend on someone else to make you happy. If you do, you'll never find true happiness.
Don't move in together right away. That can be a true recipe for disaster. There are times when it can work, but .....................
Please just love yourself enough not to put up with someone lying to you just stay in a relationship. What kind of relationship is it if you can't trust the other person?
Ain't love grand??!!??
I pray that you're healthy, that you're happy, that you're safe and most importantly I pray that you have P-E-A-C-E in your life!
Until we meet again my friends, have an awesome week!
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